Jasmine
“You might not believe It, but you’re eventually going to find a man who will truly value you.”
Most of us will experience heartbreak in our lifetime, and it’s usually more than one time. Through these heartbreaks, you experience things you never thought you would. So much suffering has caused a lot of pain.
Along with the pain, you have made sacrifices for the ones you loved. You’ve always been willing to be selfless if that meant you could hold on to this love.
And now you feel like everything you did was for nothing. That’s why you will feel frustrated more than anything. You don’t have to show anything for everyone that you did for love and that’s what is breaking your spirit.
You remember always making an effort to be there for the other person but they just didn’t seem to reciprocate. You wanted to be available whenever they needed you, but they didn’t appreciate or notice you or your worth.
You are still deeply immersed in relationships with your whole being, only hoping they would do the same for you. You were not demanding but just wanted the same thing in return.
It never happened. Every time you opened yourself up, it seems it only benefited them. It’s like they threw you to the side and set you out with the garbage.
This is a very strange thing for you because most of the people you were with seemed to need more than you could give them. You tried to give them everything they needed, but in their eyes, it was never enough.
You have always under-appreciated no matter how much you gave them. They were so greedy. Their demands were too high and too much for anyone. There wasn’t any amount that you could give that would satisfy them.
You tried to make them happy by meeting their expectations. But when you would offer your hand they would want your whole arm. You could not live up to their demands.
They took everything from you. When there was nothing left of you, they left you. When they realized that there were no more benefits for them, they didn’t have any use for you anymore.
They didn’t care that you were broken. They were happy with themselves and that was all that mattered. Now you were alone and you had to heal. They left you with the wounds they did. They left you at the bottom of a grave they dug out for you.
The truth is, you are not alone. There are so many people that have experienced these same feelings and have gone through what you have been through. And they made it through. You need to understand that even though love has a bitter taste right this second that it shouldn’t affect how you see love in the future. Don’t let the past define you.
You deserve love and everything that goes along with it. Don’t lose faith in love just because of some experiences you have had. Never lose who you are and stay true to yourself. One day, when you least expect it, you’re going to find him.
He will come into your life. The guy you need will show up. And this guy will treat you just like you have always treated the ones you have loved. He’ll be more than willing to love as you have always loved.
Once you meet this guy, you’ll understand why your past relationships didn’t work out. You’ll find out what true love means and your happiness will soar.