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Boy: I broke up with her.
His Best Friend: What happened?
Boy: She’s just too much for me.
His Best Friend: What makes you say that? What did she do wrong?
Boy: Well, for one. She only cared about her appearance. Always had to look great, always took forever to get dressed! So insecure.
His Best Friend: So you broke her heart because she wanted to keep your eyes on her? She wanted you to know that you have the prettiest girl under your sleeve and not think otherwise? I see.
Boy: Oh… Well. She’d often call me or text me asking where I am, who I’m with, telling me not to smoke, not to drink. She’s so clingy!
His Best Friend: So you broke her heart because she cares about your well-being? Because she cares about you a lot? And her biggest fear is to lose you. I see.
Boy: But… Uhh. Well, she’d always cry when I say something slightly mean. She can’t handle anything. She’s a crybaby!
His Best Friend: You broke her heart because she has feelings? And because she just wanted to hear you say you love her? I see.
Boy: I… Well! You know she’d get jealous easily. I could barely talk to other girls! She’s so annoying! I had to hide it from her so she wouldn’t bitch about it.
His Best Friend: You broke her heart because she just wanted you to commit to her? She thought you were faithful but you lied so she could find out later and hurt even more? She just wanted the guy she loves the most to love only her. I see.
Boy: Well, she…
His Best Friend: You broke up with her because she is good for you? She just wanted the best for you? She is broken now because you were selfish. Are you proud?
Boy: I broke her heart. Because I couldn’t see what was happening.. What happened to me?
His Best Friend: You lost the girl that loved you as no one else could. Do you see? You didn’t want her when all she ever wanted was you. THAT’S what happened.
SOMETIMES we don’t realize we are losing a diamond while collecting stones. “Guys don’t let her go, she is the only one.”
Think about it, when she’s too much for you. She just wants the best for you. For her, YOU’RE the best. If you don’t like something, talk to her about it. You mean so much to her. Don’t just give up. Don’t just leave because you want the easy way out.