A distraught three-year-old boy asked his mother why he had “terrible” hair after he was bullied for being ginger – and her response has become an online hit.
Lauren Russell wrote an emotional post on Facebook after she saw her son Noah Gilbert get carried being picked on over his hair color.
The 24-year-old from Southampton was on a bus with her son when teenagers in school uniform mocked his ginger hair.
Ms. Russell says the comments were ‘I would hate my child to be ginger, I would k.i.ll it’ and ‘All kids with ginger hair should go straight to social services’.
Although Noah was only three years old, Noah picked up on the comments and later got upset, asking why he couldn’t be blonde like his older brother Charlie.
When he asked Charlie why he had “terrible hair,” his blonde sibling replied that it was ‘beautiful’.
Ms. Russell was so upset that she posted her outrage on social media. In a long post, she writes, ‘He hasn’t stopped asking me why people don’t like his hair. He asked me if I could change it for him so people will like it. I can feel my heart breaking every time he asks me.
It isn’t okay to bully somebody for their hair color, not now. Not ever.’
Support messages and photos of other red-haired children have now come flooding in with her post receiving more than 18,000 likes.
Some comments suggest that Noah considers Ed Sheeran, Prince Harry, and Damian Lewis as his red-haired role models.
She said, ‘This has had such an effect on Noah, it’s just unfair. I have naturally ginger hair too and I remember being bullied growing up, but not as young as three.
Noah’s now really aware of his hair color and thinks it’s horrible. He doesn’t understand why he isn’t blond like his siblings. I couldn’t believe these spiteful teenagers could upset my son like that.’
She added: ‘Since sharing what happened on Facebook, I’ve had hundreds of people messaging me from the UK, all showing support and saying how gorgeous Noah is. When I read all the nice comments to him, his face was priceless.
‘I hope he’ll be able to forget the nasty remarks now, but I still want an apology from the teenage boy. I’ve already contacted the high school he goes to so that he can say sorry to Noah in person.’
As well as having Noah, Ms. Russell and partner Nathan Gilbert, 28, a window fitter, have five-year-old Charlie and seven-month-old twins Jacob and Zachary, who are all fair-haired.
Noah, who describes his own hair color as ‘orange’, had never before been upset about his hair.
You can read Lauren’s powerful and heartbreaking post below.
Today my heart broke in two.
Whilst traveling on a public bus number 12 I witnessed such cruel behavior towards my 3-year-old son from a very narrow-minded boy who couldn’t be much older than 13. Unfortunately, this hasn’t been the first time and I know it won’t be the last.
He’s been targeted by people of all ages.”
And what for? Because he has ginger hair. My beautiful boy was told social services should have taken him away because his hair color is disgusting.
The boy then turned to his friend and said if he ever had a ginger child he would kill it.
Now my little boy is only 3 and was left very confused. I feel devastated as I too have ginger hair and [know] all too well what it’s like to grow up being singled out/ the target of such bullies.
He hasn’t stopped asking me why people don’t like his hair.
He asked me if I could change it for him so people will like it. He asked me if he could be like his brother who doesn’t have ginger hair.
I can feel my heart breaking every time he asks me.
My little boy looks so sad and I want to make it better. The reason I am trying to go public with this is that I know these cruel bullies are in the minority.
I want to show my little boy that there is more good in this world than bad.
There are kind and caring non-judgmental people who won’t ever single him out. I ask you all to please share this and show my boy how beautiful he is.
I want to show him the good in this world with the power of Facebook.
It isn’t okay to bully somebody for their hair color, not now. Not ever. Thank you.”
Every child is beautiful in their own unique way and no one should ever make them feel less than that!